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Things I Don't Buy Anymore When Grocery Shopping for My Family (And What I Do Instead!)

 The holidays are around the corner, and for some of us, the school gates have already closed, which means more food, more snacking, and more thinking! 😅 Let’s be real — the cost of living these days? E choke. With three kids and one hungry husband (lol), I've had to become very intentional about what I buy during grocery runs. Some things that used to be "staples" in my house don’t even make it to my list anymore. Why? Because I've found smarter, more affordable, and even healthier alternatives. Let’s dive into some of them 👇🏽 ❌ Cereal Yes, it’s quick and convenient… but not filling at all. I mean, one box is gone in 2-3 sittings and nobody is truly full. Plus, prices are skyrocketing. These days, I go for oats or homemade pap with milk — more filling, nutritious, and cost-friendly. ❌ Instant Noodles Another convenient option, but it takes a lot to feed my tribe! Imagine using 10 packs of noodles (₦3,000), just for one meal 😩. Now, I do pasta (₦1,000) instead — a...
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10 Cool Skills Kids Can Learn And Monetize

 As parents, we often think about what skills our kids need to succeed. But what if they could start building real-world skills that might even bring in some money down the line? Teaching kids skills they can actually use to make a little extra money builds confidence, independence, and financial awareness. Here’s a list of some awesome skills that kids can learn today – and potentially monetize tomorrow! 1. Writing and Content Creation Blogging: Starting a blog to share thoughts, reviews, or stories can grow over time. If they become popular, they can earn from ads, affiliate links, and sponsored content. Freelance Writing: As they get older, platforms like Fiverr, Upwork, and writing apps can help them offer writing services. Social Media Content Creation: Learning how to make short-form videos or posts that engage an audience can lead to brand deals or sponsorships. 2. Art and Graphic Design Drawing and Illustration: Kids can start selling their artwork as digital downloads, on ...

Top Ten Side Hustles You Can Start In Nigeria Today

Hey there, decided to share my pot of Gold with y'all my lovelies. Starting a side hustle in Nigeria can be one of the most rewarding decisions for anyone looking to supplement their income or gain financial independence. With the digital age in full swing and the rising cost of living, diversifying income has become a necessity. The great news is that you don’t need a huge capital or extensive experience to start; there are many side hustles you can launch almost immediately. Here’s a list of 10 side hustles that can help you make extra money in Nigeria today. 1. Freelance Writing With platforms like Opera News Hub, Minipay, Upwork, and Fiverr, freelance writing can be an excellent source of income. Nigeria has a demand for skilled writers, especially with the growth of digital marketing and content needs. If you have a good command of English and can meet deadlines, this might be a lucrative option. Topics like lifestyle, news, personal finance, and travel are especially popular...

Living Your Best Life As A Mum

 Living your best life as a mom involves balancing self-care, relationships, and personal growth. Here are some tips to help you thrive and look great doing it: Self-Care: 1. Prioritize sleep (7-8 hours) 2. Exercise regularly (physical and mental well-being) 3. Healthy eating habits 4. Relaxation techniques (meditation, yoga, deep breathing) 5. Schedule me-time (reading, hobbies, etc.) Style and Beauty: 1. Dress for confidence (comfortable, flattering clothing) 2. Skincare routine (cleanse, moisturize, protect) 3. Haircare (style, trim regularly) 4. Makeup (enhance natural features) 5. Accessorize thoughtfully (jewelry, handbags) Mindful Motherhood: 1. Set realistic expectations 2. Practice mindfulness (present in the moment) 3. Positive self-talk 4. Embrace imperfection 5. Celebrate milestones and achievements Relationships: 1. Nurture your partnership (date nights, communication) 2. Foster meaningful friendships 3. Prioritize quality time with children 4. Build a support network ...

Why Women Cheat On Their Husbands: Uncovering the complex reasons behind infidelity

Cheating, or infidelity, in marriage is often seen as a betrayal of trust, yet it’s a more common occurrence than many might realize. While society often paints men as the primary offenders, research and real-life scenarios show that women also cheat, and for a variety of reasons. Understanding why women cheat on their husbands requires a look beyond simple explanations. Here, we’ll explore some of the more complex, underlying reasons why women may be unfaithful in marriage. 1. Emotional Neglect and Loneliness One of the most common reasons women cheat is due to emotional neglect. Many women desire not only love but also consistent emotional connection and validation. If a woman feels unheard, unappreciated, or emotionally isolated within her marriage, she may seek comfort elsewhere. When a man fails to show interest in his partner’s thoughts, dreams, or struggles, she may find herself drawn to someone who does. 2. Lack of Intimacy and Physical Connection Physical intimacy plays a vita...

I Lost My Husband Scare!

 Hey luluxtra lovers welcome back to another blog. This blog to some would be hilarious while for others it's the other way round. I'd let you know how I feel at the end though. So Thursday 25th May 2023, I had just gotten off the phone with my man, he'd just left church and headed home as at 7:00pm NB: we are at different locations at the moment because he's working, so I at my end was trying to make dinner and I noticed I'd ran out of gas ; the time was 7:35pm. So I decided to call him back to complain to him because I just got gas less than a week ago so there has to be some leakage or the gas attendant just pumped air into my gas cylinder. So here I am calling my man but he's not picking up for over 20mins. Thinking about it right now 20minutes is not enough time to start panicking but for some reason alot of negative thought was going through my head, thoughts like "it's unlike him, he'd at least text me back", "he should be home by n...

Stranger Proposes To Me(NYSC Memories)

Corper Wee! Another memory from NYSC . So if you're Nigerian who's gone through the (NYSC) process I bet you could relate to how terrifying your (PPA) could be, especially villages or underdeveloped parts of Nigeria. For the purpose of those who don't know what NYSC is or about; NYSC is an acronym for "National Youth Service Corp" , so if you're a Nigerian, it's expected of you to serve the country (Nigeria) once you're done from College/ the university, sometimes people go ahead to acquire their masters  first. So in the process of serving your country you first of all apply to the NYSC portal which you can only serve once, you're expected to stay in camp with other Corp members for a specific duration of time before you're then posted to your (PPA) which is your "Place Of Primary Assignment". That been said, so my PPA was 'B-dere community primary school Gokana, Rivers State ' it's resident to the ogini tribe. During cam...