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The Welcoming

So the most intriguing, hilarious and fascinating thing happened to me yesterday.

I know I'm going to get slammed for sharing this guys but then I'm still in shock.

I was invited to go out on a lunch date yesterday 23/05/17 with some David from Rivers State . No Lies guys but the invitation had come many times before but I've always been reluctant due to my busy schedule.

Finally I agreed. I'm a corper and not very familiar with the places around so I asked him to suggest a place instead which he suggested charcoal.... At GRA. I'm sorry I seem to have forgotten the name but that's not the gist.

So we met and we ordered for drinks and also chicken and chips, he took just chicken and I myself chicken and chips. We got talking, he claimed he's twenty six and went ahead to give me details of his ex who's now married after a year of their break up. We talked about school and I didn't fail to emphasize on my passion for interior designing and how much I'd want to make it a career.

Long story short the attendant who had earlier served us walked to our table saying the pos machine wasn't working at the moment so I volunteered to pay since i had cash on me expecting to get my money back in return which was just #5200.

Okay Critics before you judge note that he stated all bills on me. I'm not the type of girl who believes a man should foot all the bills when they both went out to have fun.

Okay back to my story.

We started talking about in dependence a novel written by Sarah Madipo Lanyika And the books he loved reading, I noticed his phone rang on and on but he insisted on not taking the calls and finally when I excused my self to use the convenience; the moment I got back ready to leave he insisted that we meet someone at 'The Planet' it's a lounge, with a club and restaurant.

Arriving the planet again he ordered for Gizzard and I ordered for snail.

Long story short he excused himself and never came back.

Called his number was switched off until he texted me saying he was held by SARS.

Later on called and asked for my account number as at 9pm. I sent it to him and he then claimed the service was bad and he'd try again the next day.

Earlier this morning I called to get explanation for such act and he said his mother had frozen his account.

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